A Quick Message About RESPECT From Jesus To You

Product of the Environment

Proverbs 22:6

Authorized (King James) Version

{Paraphrased}

6 Train up a child in the way he should go:

and when he is old, he will not depart from it

{you can't change a full-grown adult};

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I'm from Los Angeles, California

Some Things Will Never Change

No matter how long I've been in North Dakota, some things will never change because I was raised in Los Angeles from age 3. I also was state raised in institutions all over California from 1983 to 2003. 12 years out of 20 - accumulated time, not straight time. So, I'm conditioned to be the way that I am. Among my crowd in Los Angeles, I'm loved. Out here I'm different and strange to you ... Dracula said it best what needs to be said.

"Our ways are not your ways, and to you, there shall be many strange things".

I'm a product of Los Angeles. You're a product of North Dakota. People are products of their environment. Your race and skin color doesn't make you the way and who you are. Neither does where you were born. It's where you were raised and grew up as a child that makes you who you are as an adult. That's what God is saying in Proverbs 22:6 pasted above ...

We're different. Variations is something you know little about in North Dakota because you're from small towns. So, it's stupid to say that because we're both men that I'm like you and you're the same as me and that we have the same motives for doing what we do because we're both male. We're different because I'm not from North Dakota. Though I'm not from here and am from another state, I'm still from America. Just from another state ... but can you raised in North Dakota fathom this?

For example, in North Dakota, you're from the country and it's in sport for a man to drive a big truck. Your environment made you like that. But I'm from Los Angeles and my environment and crowd made me drive mini-vans. See the video below for why ... these actors are some of my friends from California that I met in the 90's in prison ... their area code was 909. That's Inland Empire, "IE 13". That's what their tattoos say under their clothes, "IE" and "909". But you don't see these tatts in the movie ...

Though I'm not gangbanging no more because I'm in North Dakota instead of Los Angeles, I'm still going to drive mini-vans cos that's how I was raised and who I am ... you can't change that ... all this stuff I'm saying is common knowledge in California ... I'm surprised you don't know this stuff in North Dakota among the general population, even your cops don't ...

Mini-Vans Cholo Style (End of Watch - 2012)

Male Hispanic (End of Watch - 2012)

I'm not a kid. I'm not going to sell my vans and buy a truck to be in sport with the men from this state, because driving a truck is not my style and it's not who I am. You can't change an adult, a full-grown man, like that ... this is why California is more sophisticated than Bismarck and North Dakota are because we're about respect. You can't change an adult, you respect them. North Dakota is into changing people that are different because they don't know that you can't change an adulty. You'll get into fights cos you got no respect. California respects people that are different.

We're about respect from Los Angeles. You're like a retarded kid for your age with bad manners trying to change someone to be like you instead of respect their differences ... trying to change someone because they're different than you are, is the biggest sign of mental retardation. Retardation, or "mental stagnation", as the psychiatrists call it, is what North Dakota is known for. No offense. This Government statistics report that the state of North Dakota has the national high rate for mental retardation ... think about that next time you try to change an adult to be like you ...

Another difference between North Dakota and I is a personal one. I like cats. Men from North Dakota say, "a real man drives the biggest truck and has the meanest dog in it". They got homophobia. They don't know that a man likes cats. I like dogs too, but I prefer cats because they clean after themselves. I don't need a pooper scooper. It's like Jerry Seinfeld said, "If aliens are watching, who do you think is control? One species takes a poop and the other picks it up".

"Dogs are the Leaders of the Planet" (Seinfeld - 1991)

Real Men Don't Fight

You don't know what a man is that's why you say that ... you're a man but if you knew that you were, you would respect men who are different. Your homophobia is bad enough that you got gender roles in North Dakota. "A woman stays home and cooks and a man goes out into the freezing cold to make money for her". You don't know what a man is ... cooking is also what single men do. It's called a "bachelor". Women also work. Women from California told me in church long ago that "real men don't fight". I'm OK you're OK.

A normal man has no complexes about his manhood, so he doesn't put others down to raise himself up above them, because he has confidence that the weak man doesn't. The two biggest signs of a weak man are that he doesn't know how to fight, and he starts trouble with people who don't know how to fight because when you know how to fight, you're confident in your abilities and experiences and you use your strength in fighting to help the weak, not fight them.

You can tell when someone is weak because he doesn't know how to fight, and he tries to punk others to be strong ... he puts others down to make himself feel confident ... when you're strong you have empathy for others. Respect and natural affection. Those values are missing in the weak man. And because a strong man is confident, he respects, admires and relates to other strong men. Weak men are insecure because they don't the ability to fight and the confidence that comes with it, so they feel intimidated instead of relates to other strong men. A man who is weak with insecurities tries to fight other strong men to feel confidence and respect for him. A strong man has confidence in his training, abilities and experiences in using them.

Thus, when you see a quiet and nice man, that is the mark of a trained and able man in warfare ... martial arts master's don't go around fighting people because they are confident in their abilities and experiences. This means that he knows he's going to win because he's a better fighter than everyone around him. Those abilities and confidence make him tame, respectful and helpful. meaning that a true warrior has high tolerance that comes from his confidence. This means that whatever you do in fighting, he knows he's going to win with just a few moves ... guys like that are tame and decent. Real men don't fight ...

The sign of a weak man is that he gets intimidated around other men that know how to fight and starts a fight with him. He's insecure lacking confidence in his abilities. The sign of a strong man is that he respects and relates to other strong men who know how to fight. He doesn't have any insecurities in his abilities, so he doesn't start a fight in insecurity to feel confident in his abilities ...

To the weak, a man who defers to fight is weaker ... the weak isn't the strong to relate to a strong man ... this means that weak men don't know that strong men defer fighting for legal reasons ... they don't want to go to jail ... for example, people in martial arts are registered killers and experienced fighters and killers are known by law for past experiences ... he's been there and done that ... if you're confident, you are tolerant and defer fighting because you don't want to go to jail for nothing ... those are the kinds of guys that say, "Come on ... give me a reason" ... weak men don't know what it's like to be strong like that and they only know fear ... this means that they think you're scared to fight like they are because fear is all they know because they don't know how to fight ... a confident man defers but not in fear. In experience but thew weak can't see that ... all they see is fear and so they mistake the strong for being weak like them and they always lose in fights ... the sign of a weak man is that he's always fighting to feel confident. the sign of a strong man isn't fear when he defers to fight ...

This is why I say that your cops are weak in North Dakota because they're going around breaking the law and starting fights ... it's because they're scared ...a scared man who doesn't know how to fight walks around in fear of getting picked on because he's weak ... so he, like your cops, break the law and start fights when a strong and confident man doesn't want to break the law because that's his record of the past ... the sign of the weak is starting fights, The sign of the strong is deferring to fight ... but the weak don't know the difference ...

A Weak Man That Can Fight

Is a Boxer Not a Killer

When I was in prison, the gang leaders, the killers, showed me about boxers. They win fights and got confidence but they're still weak. They're an insecure man that learned how to fight but because he's weak, he lets his enemies live after he fights them. He calls this respect. Killers eliminate the threats. They kill. This makes them stronger. They slap up the boxers cos they won't kill. Killers are stronger than fighters are. Kowing how to fight doesn't make you strong until you can eliminate your threats. This nis why gangs are stronger than the police are. Police make arrests gangs take life for their personal welfare and peace of mind.

If the police can't fight because they're in law, then they shouldn't be starting fights and breaking the law, right? If you can't see why I'm deferring to fight you, then you're weak and inexperienced and I got no respect for you ... my reasons are religious and legal, but you don't know anything about that, right?

Proverbs 19:11

Authorized (King James) Version

Defer to Fight in Discretion

11 The discretion of a man deferreth his anger;

and it is his glory to pass over a transgression.

Living with People with Down Syndrome

North Dakota, South Dakota and Montana share the national high rate of mental retardation, obesity and suicide. When I moved to North Dakota, I wondered why people were fighting instead of respecting eachother and why everyone was obese. There's a lot of reasons and they all fall under the "environment". Small towns, isolation, low activity, disease and sex problems. These all come from the isolation of the small towns. Isolation cripples people physically, mentally and emotionally and these are the problems that are the result.

Minot, North Dakota is the national capital for down syndrome. The reason there are a lot of obese people in the Dakotas is because of down syndrome. A physical retardation. The reason there are a lot of fights out here is because of down syndrome. A mental retardation. The reason there are a lot of suicides out here is because of down syndrome. The physical and mental retardations make them commit suicide. You got to have a degree in psychiatry just to live out here. No offense.

Unemployed with Income and the Working Class

I encounter a lot of problems out here because the people are mentally disabled all over out here ... one of the biggest problems is my job. Unemployed with income. With normal people when you tell them that you're unemployed with income, they know you got a business. Your money are "business transactions". You're unemployed and not working because you have a business which makes you "upper class" not "working class".

The reason that a lot of people out here don't understand unemployed with income is because of down syndrome. They can't understand how you can have money without working. They can't understand you have a business. Most people who have a business are listed as "self-employed". That's a state term. Unemployed with income is a federal term. It means that said person has a business working with federal agencies. The difference between the two is taxes. Self-Employed business owners pay taxes. Federal businesses don't. Our money is "unreportable" to the IRS. The IRS is a federal agency that works with the states. This means that the states, including all cops being city, county and state employees, don't have clearance to verify your income because it's federal. This means that it is "untaxable" and "unearned" income. We don't pay taxes or get tax incomes for our money, and no one can verify my income but me, the landowner. That's one difference between state and federal income. With the states, authorities can override your rights to verify your income. But with the feds, you alone have the authority.

For me, I'm unemployed with income because I own land on a federal reservation in North Dakota, Fort Berthold, and I lease it out to oil rig driller companies to get paid bi-monthly for oil, natural gas and water under the land in my name. It's called "royalties". People with down syndrome can't understand that ... all they can understand is working for someone else by the hour. If you don't go to a job everyday and have money, they can't understand it ... they don't understand "business" ...

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People live for their best interests ... think about that ... this means that you, me and everyone on the planet all live to do what's best for ourselves ... to change an adult, you've got to offer them something that's good and better for them than what and who they are. Adults grow into a better person to change. You can't tell a full-grown man to buy a truck to be like the men from North Dakota. You're going to have to learn some respect for variations and people that are different than you are ... otherwise, you're going to keep getting shot in drive-by's ... no offense ...

Check out the song from 1981 by RUSH called "Witch Hunt" ... it's about you ... "ignorance and prejudice" is why people did the inquisitions in the dark ages ... that's what you're like ... you don't understand no one because you're from a small town ...

Frogtown - USA

"They swim 'round & 'round in the same circles saying,

"This is all there is! This is all there is"!

Not knowing that there are lakes, streams and the ocean out there".

Pastor Bayless Conley - Manhattan Beach, California - 2003

on "Sectarianism - that sectarian spirit!"

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The pastor was talking about tadpoles in the creeks and ponds out in the woods of "the middle of nowhere- USA". The tadpoles represent people from small towns ... they don't know anything about other states and towns around them. All they know is what goes on in their town. Like the tadpole out in the ditches and mud puddles of the woods, the people from small towns swim around and around in the same circles saying that this their town is all there is ... their town is all they know. They're closed minded, ignorant and prejudiced from the isolation of the small towns they were raised in ...

It's called sectarianism. People dividing into sectors and segregation not knowing anything about people from other states like me ... your sectarianism is the problem I got with you ... you're too insecure from the isolation to grow from us into a better person ... so you fight, kick and scream to remain "conservative" instead of liberal and grow out of your mud puddle of sectarianism ... there's a bigger world out there than you know about, and your town is all you know ...

Hicks and Oakies in small towns become cops to get away with their sectarianism and

prejudice ... there's a couple movies that Los Angeles made about fighting small town prejudiced cops for being racial and disrespectful when they visit ... "Fire Down Below" (Steven Seagal) and "Walking Tall" (The Rock - Dwayne Johnson).

"Fire Down Below" (Steven Seagal - 1997)